You remove your feelings from it all and do what is best for your loved one. (Eddie, who had never flown on an airplane before, declined repeated invitations, according to Barber and Niesen.). In that capacity, his job was to oversee Ediths guardianship arrangements, and he was involved with her case, off and on, for several years. No empathy. We filmed all those around them who were willing to be filmed, she responded in a written statement, explaining why she hadnt explored the broader family issues. But in a document filed with the Alexandria court on July 11, 2011, Edith registered opposition. But the Meltdowns Are Too Much. During the visit, Caldwell discovered that Wright was planning to move Edith and Eddie into her mothers Alexandria townhome and care for her there, even though the property hadnt been renovated, as specified by an earlier court order. SEE ALL RESULTS.. Youtube Twitter Envelope Twitter Envelope She killed him. Asked to investigate the circumstances under which Edith was wed, Bushman, the guardian ad litem, wrote in a court filing that he determined that Ms. Was the marriage legal? Some family members and legal experts thought not, since Edith had been declared incapacitated. By late November, Niesen said in an interview shed become convinced that Ediths health and well-being were in danger and that Wright had no intention of cooperating with her attempts to oversee Ediths welfare. Wright the only of Ediths daughters who appears in the film had wanted to become her mothers guardian. The dispute also claims the marriage complicates Hill's care and living situation. Jessica Niesen is 46 years old and was born on 08/11/1976. Just watching this documentary broke my heart all over again. The family members I spoke with dont think that was the case. While they were fond of each other and spoke frequently over the phone, they saw each other relatively infrequently in the intervening years. To contact Judith Graham with a question or comment,click here. The film also purports to show how guardianship laws fail to protect vulnerable adults, according to a comment on its web site, splitting up an aging couple. But as I immersed myself in the details of this case, I found myself reaching a familiar conclusion: real life is more complicated than in the movies. Edith passed away last March of natural causes at age 98, after living with her daughter in Florida through the end of her life. I had no idea she would take my mother off and get her married.. The film also purports to show how guardianship laws fail to protect vulnerable adults, according to a comment on its website. On my first viewing, the events depicted in the 29-minute film were unsettling. Join the Navigating Aging Facebook Group. The film states that Edith and Eddie never spoke again. KHN is an editorially independent program of KFF (Kaiser Family Foundation). Earlier this month, after Cher offered to pay for the home improvements, a judge ordered that Hill should return to Alexandria once repairs are complete. One month later, Wright suggested her mother visit Virginia over Easter to attend church and visit with family and friends, and Barber agreed to that plan. Wright had allegedly emptied her mothers bank account of $11,000 and was refusing to return the funds, according to that court filing. Harrison stayed in Virginia. Ediths transfer was scheduled for Dec. 6 but Wright failed to deliver her mother to a location agreed upon in advance, according to Niesen. Was it Niesen, who intervened to address what the court had already found to be an unsafe situation for Edith, even if it meant splitting up the couple for a while? Edith Hill and Eddie Harrison's love for one another is as unmistakable as the callousness with which police and Jessica Niesen, a court-appointed guardian, swoop in to separate the couple. 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Wright is Hills daughter. Shockingly, Eddie died only a few weeks later. Niesen and Barber then went to Ediths townhome and were met by a camera crew waiting to film the ensuing drama as Edith and Eddie lay next to each other in bed, overcome by helplessness and dread a heartbreaking scene shown in the film. Having taken care of my Dad, elder care is a subject that hits close to my heart as it is. My sister was treated beautiful when she went down to Florida.. Thats the other story of Edith+Eddie. They really are. This short shred my heart into a million pieces. This article was published more than5 years ago. . Navigating Agingfocuses on medical issues and advice associated with aging and end-of-life care, helping Americas 45 million seniors and their families navigate the health care system. You should never work in that field again! While in Richmond, after his surgery, he went into cardiac arrest. Niesen is an unseen force of evil in the film and has rightly become the face of public scorn as one of the most despicable movie villains of 2017. Meanwhile, because the co-guardianship arrangement had become untenable, an independent guardian for Edith was appointed by the court Jessica Niesen, an attorney in Fairfax, Va. ((seethe)). Once they do the repairs and she comes back home, it's going to be bittersweet because she only wanted to be with him.. If Niesen finds that the marriage does not benefit Hill or her estate, she can pursue a divorce or annulment. Although I feel Ms. Wright deeply loves her mother she does not have the nursing skills to be the full-time caregiver for her mother and in addition caring for Mr. Harrison, she wrote. Edith + Eddie, a short documentary, is a gripping look at a couple in their 90s caught up in an intense family conflict over caring for an aging parent. Im really upset right now. Meanwhile, because the co-guardianship arrangement had. Programs that actually pay family caregivers for their dedication. I certainly didnt do it for my love of these people, but for my Dads love of his family. Meanwhile, because the co-guardianship arrangement had become untenable, an independent guardian for Edith was appointed by the court Jessica Niesen, an attorney in Fairfax, Va. But she had other concerns. And we report on how the health care system hospitals, doctors, nurses, insurers, governments, consumers works. Harrison stayed in Virginia. Court records indicate that Hill suffers from mild dementia. Was it Niesen, who intervened to address what the court had already found to be an unsafe situation for Edith, even if it meant splitting up the couple for a while? Judge James Clark agreed with Barber that the process of the marriage was improper, but he didn't want to immediately separate the newlyweds. But family disputes about how to care for frail, vulnerable elderly parents are my territory, inevitably complicated and full of unresolved emotional issues. In January 2014, Yates, 77, gave up guardianship because it was getting to be a bit much and there was a lot of confusion going on, she said, allowing simmering family conflicts to re-emerge. Barber insists that wasnt true and that the couple spoke every day once she was in Florida sometimes multiple times a day. It begins in the fall of 2014 with Edith Hill, 96, and Eddie Harrison, 95, who were married only a few months before, enjoying a series of intimate moments dancing together, holding hands, exercising and chatting comfortably. Wright wrote in an email that all the questions were based on false allegations and that the film shows how much she did for her mother and stepfather. Its not clear how advanced her dementia had become or whether she could assess what was going on as the familys feud engulfed her. Caldwells bottom line conclusion: I recommend Mrs. Hill move to an assisted living community.. Edith moved from an Alexandria, Va., townhome that shed owned for decades, to Yates home in Baltimore. She also offered to help pay medical expenses. March 1, 2018. But in a document filed with the Alexandria court on July 11, 2011, Edith registered opposition. Cher at the AFI Night at the Movies at the ArcLight in Los Angeles on April 24, 2013. That year, a court declared Edith incompetent and named Yates her legal guardian, according to court records. The fact that she did not give this man a proper funeral blows my mind. Matthew Barakat/AP Police were called to the home during a traumatic 40-minute negotiation to convince Hill to leave, Wright said. Niesen says the marriage should be given equal treatment if found to be a good arrangement for Hill. 5 Practice areas Estate planning 25% Probate 25% Elder law 20% Trusts 20% Family 10% Licensed for 9 years State VA Status Active Acquired 2013 Updated 12/27/2022 We have not found any instances of professional misconduct for this lawyer. He knew I did not like her, we spoke of it. I reached out to Laura Checkoway, the films director, who told me in an initial interview that she became interested in chronicling the romance of Edith and Eddie in the summer of 2014 when they were reportedly the oldest interracial newlyweds in America. But that, a judge ruled in February 2014, was impossible unless the home was renovated since the only bathroom was up a steep flight of stairs a significant fall risk for the increasingly frail older woman. The couple fought them, with Harrison protesting to Niesen: The family members I spoke with dont think that was the case. A 95-year-old newlywed Virginia man has died just weeks after his 96-year-old wife was taken to Florida by family members. Pure wickedness and evil. Posturing by lawyers and case filings inevitably dehumanize the elderly and we were not interested in exploring these predictable events.. Similarly, Wright reportedly declined to let Niesen see Edith or tell her when she was taking Edith to the doctor, according to the appointed guardians court filings. Barber insists that wasnt true and that the couple spoke every day once she was in Florida sometimes multiple times a day. Review Jessica Niesen Jessica Niesen View contact info Absolutely disgusting Posted by Jenny July 28, 2022 Absolutely disgusting! From what I know, the only way you continue in your profession, it seems to me, is due to others who share the same racist and careless views. Wright wrote in an email that all the questions were based on false allegations and that the film shows how much she did for her mother and stepfather. As a columnist who covers aging, Im familiar with such stories. From that nursing home, after a series of miracles, he went home for three years until he became very ill and succumb to an array of illnesses in my home, in a hospital bed in my sunroom. Earlier this month, after Cher offered to pay for the home improvements, a judge ordered that Hill should return to Alexandria once repairs are complete. More bull crap! Was the marriage legal? When Hill did not return home as planned after two weeks, Harrison began to realize she was not coming back, Wright said. I also contacted Ediths independent guardian and several lawyers involved with this case and reviewed Virginia court records, including a series of orders involving Edith between 2011 and 2015. Was it Wright, who cooperated with the filmmakers and was living with her mother at the time? Edith Hill, 96, and Eddie Harrison, 95, shown here in their home in Annandale, Va., were married earlier this year. Did Edith fully understand what was happening at that point? A son, Lewis McDaniel, died in early 2012.). Just finished watching this. "He actually gave his life to this effort," Wright said of Harrison and his battle to have his union with Hill recognized and to live with his wife. A total disgrace to the legal profession and to humanity as a whole." It is my opinion (and having been told details from others) that she had more than one friend who bought dinners and paid for things. Edith and Eddie had met more than a decade before the events depicted in the documentary, when they happened to play the lottery together and ended up sharing $5,000 in winnings. I found out after, after he was gone. No remorse. 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But Hill and Harrison said they wanted to stay together. Hill is black and Harrison is white. I know this may be a black mark on my heart and soul, but I sincerely hope Karma pays a long and painful visit to this so-called caregivers life. In an interview, Barber said she thought her mother would enjoy the trip and asked Wright to bring Edith back to Florida in July, in time for several doctors appointments. ", Like Us On Facebook Follow Us On Twitter. I refused to consider a hospice facility, as that woman found out when she mentioned it in my presence. All I do know wholeheartedly is that no matter how awful people treat me, I will never, ever let go of my huge heart and will never bring myself to their level. Wright had been the biggest supporter of Hill and Harrison's marriage. The custody case over Hill remains ongoing, despite the judge's order that Hill be returned to Alexandria. In 1967, the Lovings won their case in Supreme Court to make interracial marriage legal. After that, it was hard keeping track of where my mother was, said Barber. On one end I thought that I was watching a beautiful love story, then it turned into a dark hell. It ends months later with the couple being separated by Ediths court-appointed legal guardian, with police on the scene, and Edith taken off abruptly to Florida. Edith Hill and Eddie Harrison in their Annandale, Virginia home. Some family members and legal experts thought not, since Edith had been declared incapacitated. Heres what we ask: You must credit us as the original publisher, with a hyperlink to our khn.org site. I think this is an important story, Cher said. Niesen and Barber then went to Ediths townhome and were met by a camera crew waiting to film the ensuing drama as Edith and Eddie lay next to each other in bed, overcome by helplessness and dread a heartbreaking scene shown in the film. End of story for some viewers, maybe. I will go back on the 21st and inevitably make changes. Did Edith fully understand what was happening at that point? Edith + Eddie, a short documentary vying for an Academy Award on Sunday, is a gripping look at a couple in their 90s caught up in an intense family conflict over caring for an aging parent. March 1, 2018. Wright had allegedly emptied her mothers bank account of $11,000 and was refusing to return the funds, according to that court filing. All the bad emotions mixed on one big batch. All the people and records I consulted made it clear that the sisters for years had bickered over what was best for their mother. But that didnt happen. We have lots of information about Jessica: religious views are listed as unknown, ethnicity is Native American, and political affiliation is unknown. Another of Hills daughters, Patricia Barber, contested the marriage, saying it would complicate the eventual distribution of Hills estate. I also contacted Ediths independent guardian and several lawyers involved with this case and reviewed Virginia court records, including a series of orders involving Edith between 2011 and 2015. In a court deposition, Cher said she was inspired last year when she saw a news story about Edith Hill and her newlywed husband, Eddie Harrison. Now that Edith was married, there was no question of her leaving Eddie and returning immediately to Florida, Barber said in an interview. At that point, emails show Niesen let Wrights lawyer know she wanted Edith to go to Florida for several weeks while she looked for an assisted living facility or an alternative living situation. I wrote, backspaced, wrote again. Exactly. Its important to note, not everything on khn.org is available for republishing. He went from the hospital to a nursing home to a second nursing home. But she had other concerns. Niesen wasnt sure where Edith and Eddie were living; when she asked Wright for that information she was reportedly told they were moving between two Virginia houses on an unpredictable schedule. In a written report filed with the court, she noted with concern that Wright had taken Edith off medications for dementia, hypertension, constipation and osteoporosis. 2023 BuzzFeed, Inc. All rights reserved. That year, a court declared Edith incompetent and named Yates her legal guardian, according to court records. Rest in heaven! All rights reserved. On my first viewing, the events depicted in the 29-minute film were unsettling. While there are numerous issues to be sorted out, including questions. McLEAN, Va. (AP) A judge says a 96-year-old woman whose late-life marriage to a 95-year-old beau made national news should be returned to her longtime northern Virginia home after the musician Cher promised to pay to fix it up. I reached out to Ediths family members including several who werent included in the documentary. Hill and Harrison live in nearby Annandale, Va., with Wright and her daughter, Robin. Posturing by lawyers and case filings inevitably dehumanize the elderly and we were not interested in exploring these predictable events.. Posturing by lawyers and case filings inevitably dehumanize the elderly and we were not interested in exploring these predictable events.. I wrote this on the night of the 20th. This film is distorted and hurtful, said Michelle Davis, one of Ediths granddaughters. There was no abuse. The family of 96-year-old Edith Hill in Alexandria, Va., says her sudden marriage to 95-year-old Eddie Harrison puts her estate into question. According to the care managers report, Barber thought her mother would be best off living with her in Palm Coast, Fla. while Wright wanted her mom to move back into her Alexandria townhome. 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